Your wise response to challenges may involve action or no action.  Surprisingly, no action can be the most powerful and effective choice in certain situations.  Non-action reflects an open and relaxed state of mind that affirms “Let be”.

When you rest in silence and allow space for inner wisdom to arise, you are in essence, bowing gracefully to the natural course of life.  Without any resistance or struggle, you mindfully choose the path of inner peace.  This transformative process brings endless opportunities for creativity and inspiration, vital parts of the healing process.

Healing happens when you take ownership of current realities.  You may need to check in with yourself repeatedly and ask,”What are the facts?”  “What is the reality of this moment?”  “What do I know for certain?”

Since many of us live our day entirely in thoughts and perceptions, it is common to be out of touch with reality.  When we check in with ourselves, we realize that it is only our experience in the moment that we can be certain of.  For instance, you may answer, “I am alone.  I feel angry.  I feel frustrated.” Acknowledging the reality of the moment opens you to receive insights on current options available.  Choosing the path with heart always leads to the path of healing.

Let go.  Let be.  And be your natural loving self.  Meet each moment with genuine care and compassion.  Take responsibility for yourself and your life.  Face the circumstances of each presenting moment with unconditional acceptance.

Acceptance does not mean passive resignation.  Acceptance means embracing awareness of the big picture.  When you rest in spacious awareness, you can assess the situation objectively and be totally honest with your feelings.  Thus, the wheels are set in motion for personal transformation.  This is the moment where healing takes place.

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Healing is a natural bi-product of mindfulness.  When we open ourselves to the moment and meet it for what it truly is, we stop resisting the flow of life and embrace life’s lessons.  It is only in the moment where conscious choices are born and the process of healing can take place.

Healing may require coming to terms with pain and sorrows in life.  Sorrow comes in all shapes and sizes, from loss of job and relationships, to loss of physical abilities, loved ones and unmet dreams.  Honouring our path is vital to healing.  It is true.  What we resist, persists and adding to that, what we suppress, does not serve us best. Acceptance is key.  Accept the truth that each moment brings and choose love over all.  Love will lead you to the path of healing, one mindful breath at a time.

Mindfulness is the gateway to healing.  Whether you are coping with a physical injury or illness, emotional loss, or psychological stressor, mindfulness reveals the path back to wholeness.  This radical shift from hurt to healing is a process that alters your perspectives and changes your approach to living in profound ways.

Embracing the truth of our wholeness in any given moment, we open ourselves to the gift of possibilities.  This is the turning point where change begins.  Old patterns of thinking and automatic reactions give way to inner stillness, confidence and hope.

For example, if you typically experience anxiety and frustration in heavy traffic, you can remind yourself of true wholeness in the moment and take a few deep cleansing breaths, then say to yourself “This is manageable”, “I can overcome this” and “I have choices”.  Choosing what serves you best in the moment is the beauty of mindfulness in action.  Healing awaits with every breath of mindfulness you take.

The concept of wholeness can be found in the definitions of both health and healing.  Our body is whole with a miraculous system that allows us to experience life daily and our mind is whole with two hemispheres that allow big picture thinking.  Once we come to realize how our thoughts and perceptions influence realities, we free ourselves to be all that we were meant to be.

Einstein once said “The true value of a human being is determined primarily by the measure and sense in which he has attained liberation from self”.  See yourself as much much more than what you already know.  Open yourself to wholeness and potential through the path of mindfulness!

Patterns of thinking and perceptions create images.  When meeting someone for the first or hundredth time, the mind automatically looks for patterns to fit into models that already exists in your mind.  For example, someone may remind you of a past supervisor who was demanding and critical.  By making this subconscious connection, you may automatically adopt a negative filter and when difficulty arises, you fall back to old negative assumptions and preconceived ideas about the person.

Mindfulness helps you to see these automatic filters and choose a different path.  Mindfulness holds space for an open and curious mindset.  When we embrace an open mind, we become more able to see wholeness in others.

Do you enjoy great conversations in a relaxing atmosphere?

S.M.A.R.T. Cafe has arrived in Port Moody, with professionally led small group discussions on the topic of optimal wellness.  These one hour sessions offers valuable insights for managing stress, aging well, enhancing vitality and maintaining balance in life!

S.M.A.R.T. is an acronym, highlighting:  Stimulating conversations embracing a Mindful approach, Authentic connections and Realistic strategies for Transformative results!

Drop-In Wednesday mornings, from Feb 18 – March 25 inclusive, for a morning of fun, inspiration and real-time connection!  Meet you at 11:00 am at the Gallery Bistro, 2411 Clarke Street, Port Moody, B.C. (next to Jolly Ole Bookstore).  Registration is not required!  These sessions run until 12:15, allowing 15 minutes to purchase a beverage and settle in. For a limited time only, these sessions are specially priced at only $10/person or by donation.

Wholeness is achieved through non-judgemental acceptance.  Everyone has mental filters that automatically sort incoming information into familiar ‘files’ in the mind.  When you become aware of this automatic filtering, you can focus on redirecting automatic assumptions to mindful contact.

Embrace an open, neutral mindset and choose to focus on understanding and accepting others.  With practice, you can strengthen your capacity to avert automatic assumptions, override old habits and perceptions of others.  The benefits of doing this allows you to be fully open to the relationship in the present moment and see others more clearly for who they truly are.