How effective are you in life?  Are you living your life according to what is really important to you?  Stop for a moment and consider your values.  To help you gain clarity on your values, you may want to try the following exercise.

Ask yourself “What would I like others to think about me?”  Consider this question in terms of people whom you respect.  Write down your answers and refer to it often, especially as you create goals, initiate projects and make plans for your future.  Being clear about what is really important to you is key to effectiveness in life.